TEN THINGS I LOVE ABOUT YOU

I love you for the hopes and dreams my heart had fondly weaved at your glorious advent.

I love you for the magnitude to which I miss those sensuous springs,those snug winters,those soothing showers and most of all ‘you’.

I love you for all the lovely memories of the moments we spent as ‘ONE’.

I love you for the glimmer that your glimpse brings to my eyes and the gloom that shrouds when the thought of never being able to be your’s crosses me.

I love you for the pretensions of concern you were so good at.

I love you for the deceit you inflicted on my heart.

I love you for the infinities of solitude in which I now dwell.

I love you for the torment which I bear and the distrust which I now nurture.

I love you for the excruciating way you made me comprehend that life is not always fair.

I love you for your love that never was...

Why do we get hurt?I have mused over this question for quite sometime now.The amount of heartbreaks I see around me presents a much more sorrier sight than the relief and the happiness in the contented hearts...so what is it that actually causes a heartbreak?many days of introspection and silent pondering I have probably figured it out...it’s expectation.it is the expectation,it is what we desire from a certain relationship that attaches the element of pain onto it.the people involved don’t manage to live upto each other’s expectation,things start going awry and before even realization can dawn on one’s consideration the damage inflicted on the relationship is irrepairable.
Maybe,one of my friend’s approach to deal with relationships is the best.he believes that no matter how dear a person is to you there must still exist some “distance”(if he is to be quoted) between them.this would give each their own “space” and then you can be bonded warmly into any relationship without risking your emotional health.it’s true probably...so the bottomline is
for the sake of smooth blossoming of any relation

we should not venture into it’s forbidden lengths.

keep expectations out of the question and

enjoy every little sweetness that any association has to offer.

....Easier said than done though